Time can show the REAL success… if you do not give up but keep going on… I’m one of the successor….

Below is my challenge from Mr.Warren Lau,a singaporean writer & Allegra’s PDSM lecturer which i need to write an assignment.This assignment is really touching heart assignment for Allegra’s opinion. How bout you? Want to know your feedback/response/comment! I’m being awarded a book published by Mr.Warren himself for being top student got highest marks PDSM assignment in UCFF0810 intake.Have a look my outrageous pictures below.

Write 2000 words of essay on “ What have I learnt about myself from this course,PDSM (Personal Development & Study Method) ” ?

             I have learnt many things about myself from Personal Development & Study Method.One of them is self-esteem which used to be 2^nd lesson of the class.I do know the signs of a low self-esteem person.Impact from there,I learnt about how to be high self-esteem person although,I just have moderate self-esteem previously. Morever,I try to change my family members which having low self-esteem especially my parents.They have bit confident to trust me,for what they can’t do.Reason for this situation is,I prove to both of them that,I can do my best in certain areas such as languages, multimedia stuffs and others.Not forgotten my friends as well,which they always say No,when doing something. I do cheer up them,as I tell them,YES & CAN for what they are doing.Finally,they realized that,I’m changed after leave my high school which I’m more optimistic person.I don’t take stress as a problem,but a challenge for myself as I like challenges so much.”Be a Eu-stress person,not a distressed person.Turn stress into a motivator,”this quote seem to remind me during high school for SPM examination,which I’m on stress all the time and my friends as well.Overall view,from this topic,I learnt much compare others which I find myself of being who I’m.Then,I do have emotional success from this topic after I learnt much which related relationship,self-esteem,confidence and courage.

             Besides that,I could know how to get started for my life in university which I’m still new in this university.I try to get familiar with APIIT’s facilities and set my goals.When I’m at `saturation point’ for certain work that I’m doing,I manage to switch into a `lighter’ task which decrease my stress level at that moment.I do understand that,”Failure is an essential part of success!”. In year of 2008,failure seem appear frequently as my life going on but I do believe,everything will be fine when I’m strong to go on.I never give up,as I know all these might a test from the God.l learnt much in 2008 which I can’t find it in high school which is self-development! I start to learn my own weakness where by I try to improve my strengths. Thanks god, 2009 seem to be better year for me right now.

             Objective of learning this course also,I found out which I do re-inventing myself during all the time in PDSM.This subject give me as physchology subject.I’m happy to learn this subject as it learn more about myself,strengths,weakness and how to deal with.Something I am always curious to know,how to become an early riser appear in this course which I know how to be after learnt this topic.By the way,this topic seem to be part of our daily life. I use to have problem wake up in the morning sometimes,which I don’t know the teory before study PDSM.My parents still don’t know how it could be,so they always tell me go to bed early.I change they mind about,going to bed,when you really get tired of your body and mind. At beginning,my mum would not believe but she seem to believe after try a few times,after I told her bout the teory part.I’m accompany her chatting during midnight which she wondering why I still working on something althrough not much thing to do compare others course.

               Plagiarism used to be strictly prohibited for all university and colleges.From this topic,I learnt risk of being plagiarism which I should not plagiarism in any work to be submitted.There are many reasons as not to be plagiarism which you might get punish,image drop and more.I do learnt be independent to do my ownself without refer others so well.A book which seem useful for me,study skills. This book is about skills in study. I can make my own references after learnt how to make Harvard references and citation. “No pain,no gain”which motivate me,of not being plagiarism but be hardworking for something.I do wondering,if somehow day my work being appreciate and become reference is really fantasic as long no plagiarism and being myself.Mr.Warren,as an example for me to follow as a writer,which motivate myself more to do things with your own effort.

              In another hand,being more creative also I learnt through this couse.Mind-maps used to be one of topics teached by Mr.Warren of how to let our brain absorb information fast.I find it useful mostly,especially in OSE subject which I need more understand in teory part and especially during presentation time. Advantanges are even more can been find out through this topic.

              Time management,seem thriving for me.I learnt to plan my time better after study this topic which a quote stated as “Planning is not a waste of time but results in effective utilization of time”.I start using planner since two years ago,which proven the quote is true.Something extra,I might not learnt before attend this class which mean I know how to distinguish between what is important and urgent for doing something.From there,I know how to organize myself in all the works that I have done.Every human have they own success,which got ten types total up. I have time success right now compare to my friends where by they always feel bored of nothing to do for free time or tense up,when get buzy.My mother improve self-confident which,she know I can manage things easily in a short period of time or buzy.So,among my family members,I do a lot of tasks at home which I could handle it easy whereas my friends seem can’t.Mostly problems I could handle is related problem maker which it is something related to IQ.Impact ot that,I am always longevity person,which plan more future schedule. I help my friends,especially my best friend which in Australia currently.She do have time problem,which her family members always scold her just for that problem sometimes.I told her about this,and I hope she success in time as I’m.

               I do always no time to completed my task on time but after I learnt about that,I can easily finish a task early.I also know how to be aware my wasting time which is culprits. I try my best to ignore unwanted time,to complete bigger task and balance my time always.I’m also learnt to overcome procrastination which is a part of time wasting culprits.Myself learnt how to save time for important task ratherly than entertainment time.I am also giving my effort after learnt from overcome procrastination,during this topic being teached.Therefore,I don’t be lazy of being procrastination always.From this,myself learnt to start with small task and keep on working it.When time go on,it become big task as I can complete my task at the end!I also learnt to be open-minded to do a certain task,which I’m volunteer want to do it but not state it as I have to do it.

                I do add my knowledge which I learnt higher intelligent(HQ) which are inventions and creativity.I just know IQ and EQ before enter PDSM classes. As I mentioned,I’m always dealing IQ when comes to problem maker in my house. Now,I could use IQ,EQ and HQ even to solve more problems compare last time. My creativity still not strong enough in art and design. This might a problem for me before come to APIIT,but I do realize my creativity actually in problem solving. So,programming may not a problem for me to learn.I also want to invent something new which related to HQ,combination of invention and creative.After learn this topic,I can easily tell my friends more about it,more specific.

                Negotiations seem give me a blur idea in the beginning,but I learnt how to be good negotiator from it.I even know how to negotiate better impact from there.There are skills for that also which mean four negotiation styles. Leadership,I not forgetton as,I get to know some kind of leadership styles.2008,is the year I learn much about being a good leader! Thanks to one of my lecturers last time,which she have confident that,I can be a good leader which I have good leadership qualities.Impact of that,I become leader of many group works.One of group work seem exist problem,but I learn something from that incident.2009,I just realized that relationship play an main role of all leadership styles which to remain a good leader from Mr.Warren.Furthermore,myself learnt being a leader is not a easy which need to review his/her character.

                 Communication seem to be important part of our life. Without it,we can’t survive in this world.Additional things,I learnt to be communicate peoples around the world eventhrought I face problem of my languages.I’m happy,PDSM give me a chance to communicate more during the class.Somehow,I know when to communicate and focus study in PDSM class which have they own limited time as well.I learnt to improve my languages,which language is one of my interest as well and know more friends.English language being use common as I’m in international class.I learnt to know how important language is.Languages seem to be important,because you might rescue a person from being a jail as example.If the person know the truth in another language,which we do not know about that,we can’t simple judge that person with our own language.My target to have six spoken languages and three writing languages. For achieve it,I do have high self-esteem.I can,as long my time management not having problem with my spirit to go on. I learnt to climb up as my languages not thriving compare to my friends last time.I always not forgotten to help my friends as they know my languages improving as time goes. They apologize for some of them,felt sorry about being part of busybody gossiper last time.

                Overall view from Personal Development and Study Method give me more success in intellectual,which I just realized after being learnt this subject.Intellectual success,I’m already have in this which I do learning,understand and challenge. Some peoples,want to learn and understand but they seem to be afraid in challenges.But,I learn to take challenges as a part to success in my life.I create challenge sometimes for my friends,and they are really happy when they can overcome the challenge.

                Unexpected thing,I’m still learn to overcome it which is my own phobia. I’m already overcome many phobia’s but still left something weird still going on,which I do afraid nightmare. May be,something special is god giving me a special sense.Self-esteem topic always remind me,which I tell myself do not afraid anymore.

Coming soon,to have material success,I must work hard and smart so I can be success on it.

                 Finally,I’m appreciate what I learnt from PDSM and thanks to Mr.Warren especially for sacrifice and motivate me in the class.I’m also learnt something from Mr.Warren which patience and smile all the time. The reason for this,I’m do hot-tempered person but after I’m observed the whole semester in this subject,I find out being hot-tempered person is totally no good. My patience being strong,day by day and I learnt how to smile always. My friends never forget tell me smile,which I’m being well-known as cool girl. Myself learnt to be a `warm’ girl as my self-esteem improved! Feeling of success is always with me,after being in this class which I always feel being a failure last time in my high school. Extremely happy about myself is,I find out what I want for my life where by I can’t find what I want during high school time.

                    In future,I hope to help more peoples in self-esteem which play a main role to success in all problems.Without high self-esteem,I may back to high school feeling.I’m not learnt for myself but to help others as well,which my schoolmate mostly seem to have low self-esteem.Social person,will show how is your self-esteem.In my opinion,we should not ignore those peoples that lack active in social who know,they might lead us as a leader? This happen to me,last time which I’m being ignore such a long that I never get chance in social. Something change my life which technology is going fast everyday to improve our daily life,that is Friendster. At the beginning,it seem not famous and not well-known as peoples no idea what’s that. The truth,it change my life much,as I go on more in this networking social from all over the world. I do not become famous when comes to face-to-face but I do become famous on that time in the net which my schoolmate not ever dream in they life. So,as life go on,Friendster become famous and follow by Facebook right now.Lesson for those high self-esteem bully low self-esteem person will be,don’t ever look down on those weak but help them. You might get bless more from god,ratherly bully them. Who will know,the person you bully might get more success in they future in one day? Example,is me as I do success in three part of all success categories but others high self-esteem person seem not and no idea what’s that at all. Appreciate everyone and forgive,as I do which I change my friends mind which only they can do,but I can’t. My last hope as,PDSM subject will teach widely to whole world as this is important to become a success and outstanding human being.

                                     2178 words

By Allegra Leong M.Y

23th January 09′

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